A Man, His Mission & Purpose

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The essential nature of a man focusing on his mission and purpose in life and how a lack thereof can lead to a man feeling lost, hopeless, adrift and an inability to be successful in his personal intimate relationships.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a Military Veteran of three combat tours in Iraq and Afghanistan, who says that he suffers from severe PTSD and several physical injuries. About ten months ago he found out that his wife of twenty years was having emotional affairs with several men outside of their marriage. Two weeks ago he asked her to leave. He says he feels lost, hopeless, fat, ugly and like he’s a total loser. He says he has been begging and chasing for his wife to come back which is only driving her away more. He asks my opinion on what he should focus on to turn his life around. The second email is a simple thank you note from a retired US Army Officer who still works for the DOD (Department of Defense). I discuss the importance of a man having a compelling mission and purpose in life outside of his personal relationships as an essential component of a man being able to have good quality relationships with those he loves, values and respects.

“When a man feels like he is doing what he was put on this earth to do, he will feel most alive, engaged and interested in living a great life and becoming all that he is capable of being. When a man does not know what he wants out of life, what he wants to do with his life or is unsure of what his purpose is, he often will feel like his life has no meaning or purpose. Success is a process. Feeling successful and happy is the result of making progress towards achieving your grandest goals and dreams. Taking imperfect action towards what you want or at least researching things that are compelling or interesting to you in order to figure out what you want, is better than doing nothing. All big things have little beginnings.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne

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From my heart to yours,

Corey Wayne

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Ratna Kumar says:

I have read Ur book sir,it really made me a man.

Haris K says:

Dude I’m so glad I stumbled upon your videos. I’m going through some shit now with a girl I’ve been with for 3 years that cheated on me. I was a complete alpha when I met her but she fucking destroyed me because I opened up to her and I failed to see all the red flags because she was such a charismatic liar and manipulator. When I met her I didn’t even plan it I was just in pursuit of my purpose and I was working towards it. But she has no integrity I’ve realized as she’s been cheating for 2 years and been talking to guys the entire relationship. On my way to work I listen to your vids and it motivates me so much to focus on myself and bring myself back to how I was and I made a pact with myself that I’ll be 10 times better than I ever was. I’m working 10 hours in a day working for a job I went to school for but I realized this isn’t what I want to be doing. Can you make a video of how to stay motivated after long ass day of work. I start out so motivated but by the end of the day I get home and I’m so tired I have no energy at all to do what I want to do which is in the area of art. I want to start being a tattoo artist and also own my own architecture visualization company but when I get home I’m so tired mentally I can’t stare at a computer and more than I already have for the 10 hours I already do. So after work I work out but I also want to spend time on my career and see the only time I have is the weekend with full energy and I don’t know if that’s enough time to get stuff done without years of destroying myself in jobs I don’t want to do.

Rob Arone says:

Hey Corey, I really like this video. I've watched a few of your videos, but the love you show this guy is very evident. Keep up the good work.

ArwenMeow says:

Another great video as usual

Priyanshu Bhandari says:

Thank you for sharing this wisdom

Ryan Sells Everything says:

Coach you have no idea how many times you have saved me from circling the drain. You are my only positive influence in my life and we are worlds apart. This is your most profound message I have heard and yes I have bought your book. Some day I'll buy you a drink dressed in Hugo boss track suit lol!!!🇺🇸

Jordan Christopher says:

Corey,
Ive watched a ton of videos and used your advice to help my situation as best as possible. But..If you could help me out with just one message, I would be grateful, the rest of my life. Here is my situation: My gf and I got to a point where a breakup was about to happen because I was slacking off from my normal routine and purpose, as I have now learned from your videos, and a breakup is always a good wake up call to let men know that something was wrong. But my problem comes from what was created at that period in time when those breakup feelings were present, and that was a child. The same day I was broken up with was the same day I was told I had a child coming, and since then the road has led to her wanting to place for adoption. I want my future with this girl, and thanks to your help, I see my faults and know the process to create a new, stronger relationship with her that would be successful. But. In regards to the baby, I dont want to agree to adoption if this is just her post breakup self talking. What I know after talking with her is that she felt uncertain with the insecure me (lost my job, moody, needy, etc)> led to breakup> led to not wanting marriage> led to thinking adoption is best for baby. This baby has led me to feel a new drive I hadn't felt before, and I know with him as my backbone, I cant be stopped. What I ask you is this: I want my future with her, so should I go against the adoption? I feel it is a direct result of my crappy beta male actions and Im afraid that if I agree to her, I am only solidifying the fact that the breakup was right in her head, I will not have a future with her, and id be ruining a childs life in the process, all while losing in the end. Or should I fight for the child, upsetting her temporarily, but doing so to show her I really can support the child and her and be the stable man she saw me as when we first met? I fear us getting back together in the future post adoption and she asks me why I let her do that, Why did I let her make a decision she regrets, Why didnt I step up to the plate like an alpha male and say no, etc. She says that by going against her decision, I am not showing I love her, but because of the fact I love her and want a future, I feel I have to.

What action do I need to take to show the stability she wanted that would have prevented a breakup, and also give the 3 of us the best future, hopefully a family?

I appreciate any and all help, the baby is days away.
Always a fan.
-Jordan

Joshua Schreiber says:

Thank you for making this video.. I've been at a loss as to what to do. Things have fallen apart and never seemed to get better. I just saw this video and it gave me an idea on how to fix everything, one SMALL step at a time. Maybe it'll give me purpose again. Keep it up. I'll be watching your videos from now on

Sapiens Strength says:

Good sh!t Corey. What I needed to hear today, to get out my slump.

REYNA RG says:

I need to find my purpose in life, please help me, I love your videos

Johnny D says:

The ideology in America that attempted to shame the vets is called liberalism.

John Dionne says:

Mark zukaberg stole an idea… interesting!! your work is Awsome!!

Chabubu424 says:

Corey, what's your next goal in life man? Set one even higher, for all of us! Solve our political mess, world hunger, world peace, whatever. As far as inspiring, motivating, and helping people through difficult times, you're a godsend and definitely fulfilling the purpose you are here for! Found you yesterday. Watched about 15 videos. Buying that book ASAP.

Linda Lane says:

He needs help your giving good advice. He has issues.

Linda Lane says:

If she is having an emotional afair with someone else that means you are not their for her. Sge shouldn't have to turn to another man. but wth is a an emotional affair. She has to kean on someone else, talk to another man friend. She didn't hace an affair and you threw her out. You are the problem. I wouldn't take you back. You didn't adore her or you would not have tild her to leave. She didn't cheat.

Donna Hannaford says:

Another great video

Carlos Monzalvo says:

I can not wait to use my 15 reads and hundreds of video experience my freshman year of college! I'm ready to fly Coach! haha

AbleMike5 says:

Hey Coach or whomever is listening-I won't bore you with the LONG details, but I made a mistake. I overshared, but only slightly; we had a good ebb and flow going on on social media (sharing details about our lives, she would list 10 I would list 10 and so on. Well I shared 30; she sent a text saying I love your communication, but I'm a bit overwhelmed) I immediately stopped blowing up her devices. Initiated the no contact rule. It's been three days. Last night she "liked" a new photo of me and my parents out to dinner. Did she just come back? The question is, does "liking" a photo on social media indicate she is coming back in? Or should I wait for a text? I don't really care either way, it's just that we have a date set up in about 10 days (long distance) and want to make sure she's there.

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