Advice from the opposite sex: talking about yourself and using women for practice dating (I was used for 1-3 months) causing women to warn other women about these douchebags and we stop dating you. The men who did this to me are still single conflicted bachelor's who seemed desperate to talk to me when we ran into each other (when they crashed my running group unknowing to me) while I live with my boyfriend. BTW, women don't want to marry a guy as soon as they see them (because we want to get tp know people) . . . sex is different. Some guys are fine for sex (that part's easy). However, if a guy's bad in bed (jackhammer-doesn't care about the woman) the woman will never give him a third chance (and rarely a second). If a woman only has sex with you once or twice, you suck in bed. If you talk to a woman like she's a human being with interests and who sincerely want to show her a fun date, great! If you constantly treat it like a job interview and make the woman dread dating (like most of us do), you will not get a second date. If you had a 3-4 house date without noticing, that's a good sign. I'm shy and ended up talking to my boyfriend for 4 hours with many awkward pauses. He also had awkward pauses, but was fine with it. We talked about a lot of weird topics. I hate talking on the phone and will try to get off the phone as soon as possible. So, this guy doesn't know what he's talking about. I only texted a couple times before we met. In person is never the same as over the phone/internet. Also, what's all this emphasis about being hot? This guys isn't and I' sure many other men and women aren't considered "hot", but men expect to date only hot women even when they look like a slob. That's probably the bigger issue. Many men expect women to be perfect Stepford wives, but we are just imperfect humans like you. Sorry . . .not sorry. Ladies, only date. feminist men who treat you like humans, not hot objects to obtain/practice on. They you'll be a sad alone single dude who has to pay for porn stars to fuck you begrudgingly.

Ok I need advice. Met girl on bumble. Talked for few weeks. Went out on date. Had great time. Touching, kissing, flirting, she complemented ended the date kissing and shes says "you better not ditch me". She texted after the date first and first the next 4 days. Didnt talk a ton but she was engaging multiple times a day .I ask her out on the 5th day Wednesday and set a time for friday. Thursday she texted me her son was sick so we will see how he feels(I know I should of rescheduled right then instead of leaving it open). Next day she texted me said son came home from school and that 3 little kids she knows died in house fire(tragic story). I'm a little worried at this point but obviously played it cool because dates are only so important. After that she doesn't text me all weekend(I'm losing it mentally cause I'm a bitch) but didnt text her until sunday night asking her how her weekend was. She texted me monday morning ( 5 hours ago) said it was sad, stressful and overwhelming) Havent texted back yet and I have competing instincts. Part of me wants to be supportive which any human should but getting this chic naked in bed is the goal…so help me out of you can. I know her story isnt a lie but could still be excuse. I like this girl more than I normally like girls but at the end of the day theres plenty of options. Just dont want to fuck it up if theres still a chance.

If you are a man, here's an advice: don't use it. Go out.

you are too convincing … dammnit.

This work for guys too??

A man came to Umar ibn Khattab , and this man had killed the brother of Umar in the battle of Yamamah (wars of apostasy). Umar said to him: Are you the one who killed Zaid? He said: Yes, Umar said: Get far from my face, I do not love you until the earth love blood !, the man said: O Commander of the faithful, will this prevent me from my rights? Umar said no. He said: will this make the skin of my back whipped? He said: No .. The man said: so I do not care about your love, because only women sorrow over love….

It is very funny that i showed my mother about being 3%man. And she started arguing with me, because she want to dominate against man. She used to say me that Corey coach is wrong). My father is looser,he is beta male,and my mother prefers to controll with him. Thanks Coach,because of you i know how to be man,but not like my father.

Hey coach / comments section.
Ever had a girl that you gave a lot of compliments to have them all go straight to her head? She blew me off (it was my own fault, made a lot of principle mistakes) and I was trying to find answers (this is how I found you), she now has a really high self esteem, is really confident about herself and is out texting new guys. Its as if she took a chunk out of my confidence and self esteem and built her own up with it. Its been really hard to recover from this particular one.
Recently bought the book and making lots of notes on it, love the work.