Rules of Dating: Why they’re worth breaking! / Single AF Podcast / Ep. 8
In this episode of the Single AF Podcast, we cover the rules of dating and other supposed dating mistakes (and why you should definitely break said dating rules) that you're making in your quest to find love.
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The Single AF Podcast is a weekly series on both YouTube and SoundCloud in which host Michael Noker tackles being single, dating, relationships, love, and all that other junk. Have a story you'd like read, a question you want answered, or a suggestion for a topic to cover? Reach out via social media or email!
Most relationship advice and supposed secrets of dating seem to be about pretending to be somebody you're not and acting like you wouldn't normally. I don't know how many times I've seen somebody ask for dating tips, seeking advice on how to date or dating etiquette, only to be met with a long list of arbitrary dating rules for women that seem to be centered on how to text a guy. Not only that - the rules for texting a guy are about waiting at least 20 minutes (or 20 hours) before responding to text messages. What the heck? How is that supposed to help you find a relationship - let alone a healthy one?
Bottom line, at the end of the day, only one of the supposed dating rules for men or online dating rules matters: be yourself. Act like you normally would. If, for whatever reason, being yourself alienates the guy that you're trying to date, he wasn't the one. It wasn't meant to be.
And that's okay. Because it's better than getting three months down the road and then suddenly revealing who you actually are, only to be met with heartbreak and rejection because you were acting like someone you're not for the entire courtship process.
Stop that. Stop it right now.
Make sure you leave your worst dating tips in the comments section down below. How many rules of dating have you broken in the course of your attempted relationships? I'll try to find a way to reward the most rebellious daters out there.
P.S. I totally deleted Grindr today. This may actually be serious. ****.
In this episode of the Single AF Podcast, we cover the rules of dating and other supposed dating mistakes (and why you should definitely break said dating rules) that you’re making in your quest to find love.
Get the #SingleAF Sweatshirt: https://goo.gl/GwUihU
Patreon: http://patreon.com/michaelnoker
More Single AF Podcast
blog http://singleafpodcast.com/
tweets http://twitter.com/singleafpodcast
friends https://www.facebook.com/Single-AF-Podcast-1234224769993991/
soundcloud http://soundcloud.com/singleafpodcast
tumblr http://singleafpodcast.tumblr.com/
Work With Us
singleafpodcast@gmail.com
More From the Host
snarky tshirts http://zazzle.com/anthrapologist?rf=238021413209205327
main channel http://youtube.com/michaelnoker
michael noker http://thenoker.com/blog/
writing http://medium.com/@michaelnoker
The Single AF Podcast is a weekly series on both YouTube and SoundCloud in which host Michael Noker tackles being single, dating, relationships, love, and all that other junk. Have a story you’d like read, a question you want answered, or a suggestion for a topic to cover? Reach out via social media or email!
Most relationship advice and supposed secrets of dating seem to be about pretending to be somebody you’re not and acting like you wouldn’t normally. I don’t know how many times I’ve seen somebody ask for dating tips, seeking advice on how to date or dating etiquette, only to be met with a long list of arbitrary dating rules for women that seem to be centered on how to text a guy. Not only that – the rules for texting a guy are about waiting at least 20 minutes (or 20 hours) before responding to text messages. What the heck? How is that supposed to help you find a relationship – let alone a healthy one?
Bottom line, at the end of the day, only one of the supposed dating rules for men or online dating rules matters: be yourself. Act like you normally would. If, for whatever reason, being yourself alienates the guy that you’re trying to date, he wasn’t the one. It wasn’t meant to be.
And that’s okay. Because it’s better than getting three months down the road and then suddenly revealing who you actually are, only to be met with heartbreak and rejection because you were acting like someone you’re not for the entire courtship process.
Stop that. Stop it right now.
Make sure you leave your worst dating tips in the comments section down below. How many rules of dating have you broken in the course of your attempted relationships? I’ll try to find a way to reward the most rebellious daters out there.
P.S. I totally deleted Grindr today. This may actually be serious. ****.
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