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Today we’ll go over how to handle it when someone insults you.
We’ll start with a few comebacks that are great at winning over a crowd and embarrassing the person who insulted you. The downside is they can make the target of your comeback hate you.
Then we’ll cover some friendlier, more charismatic responses so you come away looking cool and confident without making enemies.
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 – Intro
0:15 – #1: Use an Aikido insult
0:42 – #2: Point out they’re easy to dislike
1:24 – #3: Use a Trojan Horse compliment
1:52 – #4: Genuinely compliment the insult
2:20 – #5: Assume positive intent
3:13 – #6: Agree and exaggerate
4:24 – #7: Be non-reactive
4:33 – #8: Call out their behavior
5:41 – #9: Just walk away
6:06 – #10: Draw a boundary
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05:45 what did the host say that made the guest feel insulted ?
a belt in the mouth usually stops rudeness in its tracks. ha ha
Here's an insult: too many irrelevant jump cuts.
Hehe. Liu Kang from Street Fighter.
I started to make sure that 90% of the interviews are acting, they look perfect, and they always know what they say to sound funny and charismatic, and most of them are actors, so this supports my saying
Best moments
Insult comebacks
1:09 If you could ever meet yourself you would hate it
1:42 I am so used to bad jokes I almost did not listen to that
Strategy
1:54 Compliment the insult
A strategy I really like as you bring comedy into the conversation
3:19 Agree and exaggerate: get that b off the monitor
Be non-reactive
4:16 Show that they are not important enough. Hence Don Draper does not react.
Charisma have shown this idea in a previous mad men video.
Specific
04:43 that is so rude. This is better than saying you are so rude. You call out a specific behaviour.
Walk away
05:50 Jimmy Fallon comment on his guest. Just walk away.
Nerds getting owned trying to think of witty stuff to say ????
Just accept that you are like George Costanza and you will never be cool.
very well explained
You guys are so good
You forgot one: Turn your back to them and show that their insult means nothing to you by having a good time talking to others about something else despite them. Ever been ignored after making an unwelcome comment? Yeah, you learn your lesson.
Best way to handle a rude person: Give them what they want by giving them what they don’t want.
Tanking the insult and turning it on them is my favorite thing to do. Denies the reaction they want outta you and turns it on em
But, he WAS mansplaining.
A.I. will definitely learn to roast us from your videos ????????
I get insulted in our parking lot at work, so it would be easier for me if people didn't drive off after insulting me.
humans are rotten, maggot infested pigs
Hey! I REALLY enjoy these videos!! here’s some recommendations for things I need would love to see…
– how to escape the friend zone
– feminine traits to keep a man obsessed with you
– how to gain respect (feminine version)
I love the variety of options that you have available so you can be flexible depending on the situation and context.
Liu Kang from Street Fighter??
Says a lot about our society that brendan schaub is rich.
I don’t mind this channel, but could it at least find some women with the same technique, not just women being victims to it? The Aussie clip seems wildly off. Mansplaining is mansplaining, doesn’t matter if the dude has a comeback.
The Australian senator seemed in the right in that clip. I don't know the full context, but that reporter did come off patronizing/condescending. I'm sure a woman in a historically male-dominated field like politics, who has worked her way up to a senate position, can detect "mansplaining" when she sees it.
A homeless cat?
The most outrageous thing i heard in the video: "Liu Kang from Street Fighter"!
How about this? Get those people out of your life
kinda weird the political examples being so onesided
This is great for toxic intimidating people, i useally go for the non responsive aproach, if they cross the line i do walk away from the confrontation to save grace, i don't have a great temper tolerance but i do know how to control it ????????
No decent human being insults another. Therefore, any person insulting me is considered an animal. But since animals can't really insult you – the insult is an exercise in futility. Possible reactions include: Ignore it, Smile and console the animal for being an animal, walk away,
I'd rather pull a Will Smith…
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