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You’re going to come across some conversational bullies in the course of your life. Generally, people try to shut them down with insults and aggression, and some others prefer to walk away from these interactions to avoid that kind of negativity.
But there is a third, potentially more effective way to deal with these toxic people. Russell Brand, for instance, tries to take control of the conversation instead of shutting it down. This allows him to stand up for himself without coming across like a jerk. His interview with three hosts at the MSNBC morning show is a perfect example of the main strategies that you can use to dominate any bully in any conversation.
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0:55 – Practice #1: Continue speaking until the end of your sentence.
1:55 – Practice #2: Treat each member of a group as an individual.
2:51 – Practice #3: Emphasize similarities with other members.
10:01 – Practice #4: Learn to detach your ego from personal attacks.
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This Russell guy seems like the rude one. Maybe I have to watch the interview that you're talking about.
Doesn't that depend on the following too when it comes to adopting that strategy to cope with what seems to be a rude person too: Like the gender of the person, if the alleged rude person is sometimes but not always in the building maybe speaking in a different other language and/or with an accent when speaking the same language you know how to speak called English 'sane' as you who is the person percieving the alleged rudness is; If they are working in a traditional gender role or not and if at the same time maybe the person is wearing thick glasses and/or hearing aids at the same time too while perhaps needing to use sign language sometimea while speaking too in response? Like while trying to pass a test in college to become a hearing aid practitioner in front of a camera when a professor there might come flying across the room to interupt what you are doing too after no student in the busy overcrowded with no sound proof room decor had asked her a question too. Sometimes instead the most intelligent thing to do in the room is to accept that this world is not perfect while admitting defeat for only the time being while not taking any of what went wrong there for you personally.
dont belive this bs, it does not work, if i saw someone speaking over me twice he would be just straight out ignored, theres nothing more annoying than having someone speaking over you, plus if he did anything onf this it would not affect me, it would motivate me to have more of an arguement lol
ur voice is the same as rekrap2's voice
I am 57 and just learned this from lesson. Never in school or family. Thanks for helping me . I almost never have conversations with anyone. But I always did what host did all my life. Never knowing I was wrong. One friend tried explaining it while I was referring megal in his presence as he 3. Times .them corrected me but I didn't understand the rudness.
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I have always liked Russell. He is a self made man who has faced his demons and become truly aware!
check out russell brand v bob geldof
Very good advices 👏🏼👏🏼 thanks for the video 👍🏼
I'm raised in a cave, can someone give me a context of why those three hosts were attacking that Russell? I don't know who he is, why are they negative towards him?
The fact that you use Russell Brand as an example, you lose your credibility, how pathetic…the most hateful human who pushes misinformation and hate…okay.
Interesting choice of personality for this subject. Russell Brand often comes over as cocky and misinformed and, honestly, sometimes I find that his way of dealing with conflict is driven by his ego pushing past the insults. I'm not suggesting that what you say is wrong, but I'm not entirely sure our Russ is the best example
How to outbully the bully…
… if you are already a star and have superhuman manipulation skills.
I would also recommend being tall, handsome British, and having a devil May care attitude, as well as being an incredible artist, and having a brilliant mind who also has a spirit full of love and generosity
I don't who is this man but seems someone interesting. I must find more info one Russell.
I'm always put off by someone using my name. It seems impersonal. Like they're about to ask me if I know why they pulled me over.
I will often respond with an over emphasis of their name in return, to point out and underline how weird it is to call someone by name all the time. The only reason anyone need know my name to speak to me is if there is some strange ambiguity as to who they might be talking to, or if they want to talk about me to someone else whilst I'm elsewhere. To my face though mid conversation? That's jarring.
I read this in a book 30 years ago, How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie
This isn't equity is it? 😂
Russell is Brilliant!
I gotta say I think you botched at least the first five minutes of the presentation that made me think your read of the interview was off. I didn't see the original and don't know how it turned hostile in the first place but you made Russell come off as an unnecessary pr***, a condescending prima donna.
I don't dislike Russell. I think he's very intelligent, I agree with him sometimes but haven't followed his career (would still like to see the Great Boosch or whatever it's called) but he has a rep for getting into these confrontations and it's not a coincidence.
Putting your feet up on the desk, acting distracted like you can't be bothered to be there, using people's names when it's clear you're looking at them doesn't gain favor. It comes of as inconsiderate, arrogant, disrespectful and confrontational. He didn't win anybody over. He just forced them into de-escalation mode b/c they are stuck in a segment on TV with him for so long.
This was an A-hole power move that I can't tell was necessary. I guess the title says it all. Not how to get along with or communicate with initially hostile people but how to make them 'regret' not acknowledging your power dynamic. Note, later interviews he was the host and had the power.
RB Master conversationalist. Sometimes his frequency is a bit high its almost like an energy forms within and his speech hitches I ride. I could totally see someone not fully awake having his jokes fly over their heads. A27V
3:05 he charmed her so much she made one of the biggest females tells when she cleared her hair from around her ear