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23 Replies to “something needs to change.”

  1. Mai this will always be your channel and I truly hope that the feeling of youtube being maybe a safe place to you isn't being taken away by the thougth of other people maybe nog liking it. There will always be people that don't like the things you do but never let those people take away the beautiful person you are 🙂

  2. If you have done it once you can do it twice, remember that.

    By that I mean that if you for example have had a not so good point in your life, escaped from it, but came back then you can escape again

  3. This is your channel don’t care about other peoples opinion at all. Be true to yourself in I’m 100% sure that people are gonna stay with you and watch your own videos. And if you lose viewers (which is not gonna happen) the correct people are going to be liking your videos, commenting, sharing, and subscribing. I found your channel at the beginning of this year and am going to be sticking with you for a long time. Please post the videos you want to. All of us don’t want you to act like doing YouTube is a chore. Just do whatever you want to.

  4. im sorry mai i hope you're doing better now, this video acc spoke to me personally as well. thank you so so much for the content you create for us, it truly brightens my day. i love u stay safe, we're in this together 🤍

  5. This video just made me burst into tears. I love you mai and i dont want see you cry cause it makes me cry 🙁

  6. Im so proud of you mai💕💕 you have grown so much and you have made so much progress these last few years❤️ don’t let 1 bad day ruin it😽😽😽

  7. Yes do those videos Mai 🥲💞 we loved those as well …. You’re very adventurous and that’s something a lot of people aren’t …. Balance it do what they want and what you love and and want too do … if they don’t like it fine that’s not the point it’s your life your channel your journey …. You want too be able too look back and say dang I did some crazy adventurous things …. Lol forget them !!! If they don’t like it they don’t have too watch GIRL !!!

  8. mai, honestly if youre worried about us and what we think of the real you (not that the past videos weren’t you), i really need you to know that i personally prefer the real, raw shit like this video, where you just sit down and show that its not easy. you’re not being dramatic. it helps so much to see the stressful side of things. we’re all learning, we’re not leaving you ever. you’ve helped me so much and i’m so grateful. be kind to yourself, you’re so loved🤍

  9. As much as I love watching your videos, I really liked this change of pace. It made me realize you are not as unreachable and out of touch. You are just another young adult girl going through life and it makes me relate to you more which I love. I love when you are your goofy, hyper, weird self lol but it's nice to hear what you are going through as it makes it seem like we are all closer to you.

  10. GIRL. Be yourself! Pursue yourself not an idealized version of YOU. Athletes and trainers take months off of working out. Therapists HAVE therapists. You get to do whatever you want. You can decide your workload because you know what you need.

    I have OCD and at school I looked perfect being in officer positions for multiple clubs with good grades and a good attitude, but at home I was a wreck. I was toxic to my family, unmotivated and honestly so depressed. Because of my ocd I let objects pile up in my room and I never cleaned it. It was at my parents breaking point to make me clean and I remember watching you and being able to feel genuinely better because someone else was hurting and fixing themselves at the same time.

    Thank you for helping me and being amazing. You don’t ever need to act for something. You do what you feel and think you need to do. No number or opinion should define your career or personal life.

  11. I'm a mega lurker on yt and never really comment anything ever but I just want to say thank you for sharing this with us. I know I personally would love to see the impulsive, unstructured, fun stuff that you really want to make. I appreciate all your honesty and vulnerability and I can't wait to see what you come out with next. Just do what you want for you and we will always be here for you! <3

  12. Mai please do not ever think you have to be a certain way or post certain things for your videos, it’s your channel girl.
    You can do what ever the fuck you want!!
    Do what ever you want and we will be there because we’re your fans and we love you no matter what. <3

  13. I love how you are your true authentic self and not try to be someone your not.🥰

  14. hi mai! I am super happy that u told us this and that u made us this video bc tbh I kept following u since like half a year now,I didn't quite get into ur older videos,and seeing this reminded me that having bad days it's normal,and also I'm really happy that u know u can show urself even if u're in a mood bc ydc and just so yk we will always support u♥️ btw u're not the only dramatic bish here,I literally started crying at the end💀so am I know writing this BUT tomorrow is going to be a better day and I hope u'll enjoy ur day tomorrow better than how u did the day u filmed') love u Mai♥️

  15. mai, seeing you so real and honest is what I myself look up to and many of your supporters look up too.
    as much as you motivate me to be "that girl"who reads atomic habits bc of you and finds joy in little things like grocery shopping, taking my dog out, workouts, etc.
    it brings me so much comfort knowing im not the only one who struggles and has bad days and feels guilt for having a bad day. I have one bad day n spiral so hard. just know we appreciate you and love that your real on ig and yt bc we love "life style" mai but also real mai its okay to be both<33

  16. if im honest i havent clicked on one of your vids in a while till i saw this chit chat sort of vid cause they are the ones i LOVE to watch where youre real and honest. So thank you for this vid!!!! we love u mai for being raw even though its really fucking scary. THANK YOU FOR MAKING US FEEL HEARD AND LESS ALONE WITH VIDS LIKE THESE!!!!

  17. I needed this reminder that even a little bit of "better" is okay. This video seems like such a sign from the universe because fuck if I haven't been feeling like such a failure lately. Good luck to both of us and our journeys Mai. Take care.

  18. I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing. – John 15:5
    But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. – Matthew 6:33

  19. Mai, i found your channel 2 months ago and I have not stopped binging your videos since. I’m always in funks and ruts myself, and seeing you push yourself to get out of your own ruts motivates me to do the simple things like eat healthier, workout, or even clean my room. You’ve been nothing but an inspiration to me and so many others. I’m actually gonna start my own channel soon because of how much you’ve inspired me to step out of my comfort zone and pursue what I love, which is video editing. And because you’ve been your true and authentic self all throughout your videos and your attitude has never been a façade in the slightest way, it’s been so moving to watch you and all of your growth throughout your channel. So Mai, ALWAYS post what you want, and ALWAYS be yourself. This channel is yours and nobody can take that away from you. And the world is your oyster! Your channel is just an outlet for others to see how your world works! And those who love it, love it! Those who don’t, don’t. And that’s okay! As long as you’re happy with the content you’re putting out there, that’s all that matters at the end of the day. And I’m sorry this is so damn long but I adore you so much and since you encourage me everyday through your videos, I thought I’d write you a paragraph in hopes of encouraging you too! You got this Mai! And I can’t wait to see the content that’s yet to come <3.

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