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Online dating
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Lets talk about online dating.
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People aren’t always who they portray. Their dating and social media profiles are often times more about who they wish they were than who they really are. Understand that what you see on these profiles is only what they want you to see nothing more. Social media profiles are like commercials. And we’ve all seen a commercial for a product or service we thought looked awesome only to be disappointed by the stuff when we bought it. People are no different. Dating profiles are often full of romanticized ideas what kind of partner a person thinks they are. People aren’t in the habit of exposing their flaws for good reason. Just imagine if a shifty guy described himself honestly. If he was just like...
“ Hi I’m Craig, I’m 5 in a half inches of narcissism and low ambition. I’ll be sweet for a month or two but then become emotionally distant. You’ll wonder what’s wrong and While I secretly Dm other women. I’ll like 3 pass pics a day on Instagram and always finish before you in bed. Date me if you have 90 days to waste”
No one would ever write craig back if he were honest . It’s just easier to type bullcrap like Easygoing or Enjoys bike riding and long walks on the beach.
If you want a more genuine idea of what kind of kind of person they are look at their status updates for the last few months. What kind of comments do they make. What kind of people do they engage with on social media. What conversations do they contribute to. Do they seem to have any passions that align with yours. What kind of pictures do they post of themselves. A lot of selfies for guys usually indicate a huge ego and possibly self obsession. Are the pictures natural or composed. A lot of composed pictures could show a reluctancy to open up. Are they always alone or in a group. If every picture is a group picture they could be hard to pin down or separate from their friends. If you don’t like their friends or want a lot of alone time that could be a problem. Are they trying to be seen a certain way? What are they trying to make you think about them with the things they post. Do they want to be seen as fun, wise, adventurous or well off. That may may be a clue to what’s important to them.
Some guys won’t bother putting much information at all. This shows a reluctancy to qualify themselves to others. It also shows that they are lazy socially and may give that same minimal effort in their new relationships.
I was asked this week about what to watch out for when judging a guys online profiles. My answer, is everything. People can be whatever they want on the internet. There are fake vegans fake activists fake models fake directors fake wisemen fake ballers and everything in between. If you think a guy is cute The best thing to do is chit chat with em long enough to see if he is crazy. Try to ignore the social media advertisement they show you.
There’s no secret to dating online. The best mindset is an open mind but skeptical one. Like I always say love with your brain and Date with discernment. I’m sorry I don’t have any wise words for this topic. People are full of crap sometimes no matter how nice their profiles look. Dating online is a gamble just like dating in person.
Thats it for now. Follow me on Instagram or Facebook and subscribe to my blog. I’ll get with yall later
Girltalkwithguys.com
Online dating
Whats up people!
Lets talk about online dating.
Before I start don’t forget to subscribe to my blog if you haven’t at girltalkwithguys.com and subscribe to to this channel is you always watch the videos but never subscribe! What are you doing?
People aren’t always who they portray. Their dating and social media profiles are often times more about who they wish they were than who they really are. Understand that what you see on these profiles is only what they want you to see nothing more. Social media profiles are like commercials. And we’ve all seen a commercial for a product or service we thought looked awesome only to be disappointed by the stuff when we bought it. People are no different. Dating profiles are often full of romanticized ideas what kind of partner a person thinks they are. People aren’t in the habit of exposing their flaws for good reason. Just imagine if a shifty guy described himself honestly. If he was just like…
“ Hi I’m Craig, I’m 5 in a half inches of narcissism and low ambition. I’ll be sweet for a month or two but then become emotionally distant. You’ll wonder what’s wrong and While I secretly Dm other women. I’ll like 3 pass pics a day on Instagram and always finish before you in bed. Date me if you have 90 days to waste”
No one would ever write craig back if he were honest . It’s just easier to type bullcrap like Easygoing or Enjoys bike riding and long walks on the beach.
If you want a more genuine idea of what kind of kind of person they are look at their status updates for the last few months. What kind of comments do they make. What kind of people do they engage with on social media. What conversations do they contribute to. Do they seem to have any passions that align with yours. What kind of pictures do they post of themselves. A lot of selfies for guys usually indicate a huge ego and possibly self obsession. Are the pictures natural or composed. A lot of composed pictures could show a reluctancy to open up. Are they always alone or in a group. If every picture is a group picture they could be hard to pin down or separate from their friends. If you don’t like their friends or want a lot of alone time that could be a problem. Are they trying to be seen a certain way? What are they trying to make you think about them with the things they post. Do they want to be seen as fun, wise, adventurous or well off. That may may be a clue to what’s important to them.
Some guys won’t bother putting much information at all. This shows a reluctancy to qualify themselves to others. It also shows that they are lazy socially and may give that same minimal effort in their new relationships.
I was asked this week about what to watch out for when judging a guys online profiles. My answer, is everything. People can be whatever they want on the internet. There are fake vegans fake activists fake models fake directors fake wisemen fake ballers and everything in between. If you think a guy is cute The best thing to do is chit chat with em long enough to see if he is crazy. Try to ignore the social media advertisement they show you.
There’s no secret to dating online. The best mindset is an open mind but skeptical one. Like I always say love with your brain and Date with discernment. I’m sorry I don’t have any wise words for this topic. People are full of crap sometimes no matter how nice their profiles look. Dating online is a gamble just like dating in person.
Thats it for now. Follow me on Instagram or Facebook and subscribe to my blog. I’ll get with yall later
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Lmao to the disclaimer portion. How much easier life would be if we all came with warning labels or better yet if we could just be honest up front with no back-lash when people don't like what they hear. Against my better judgement I've taken the advice of friends in the past and joined dating sites. I thought it reasonable as my career didn't allow for too much time for anything else. Needless to say I barely lasted a wk b4 feeling the frustration that followed the games, lies, and unsolicited sexual advances. My profile was candid. I believed that I came across as genuine, open minded, and receptive to others. Maybe I shouldn't have made statements in my profile that expressed in part that I don't play games and wasn't interested in wasting anyone's time including my own. Or that I wouldn't ask any1 for anything I wasn't willing/able to give.. There are a great number of dangers that accompany these platforms but I took a chance and can honestly say I tried. I'm definitely not good with that scene but that doesn't mean I'm against it if it works for others. I'm old fashioned I guess.. I appreciate meeting some1 in person, hearing them laugh (instead of a smiley face, or relying on emojis to show the tone or expressions of my words as it can be daunting over time), looking into their eyes and not a computer screen.. It's the nonverbal cues that just don't come across from the impersonal "dialogue" found when texting or similar methods of trying to get to know some1 and them you. I can appreciate the convenience of social media or dating online but things worth having are worth working hard for and this form of "communication" or the lack thereof is not for me. Having said all of this I realized that I needed to make time for the up close and personal pleasures of good company!
"but unlike a product you can take his sorry ass back to the store"
😂 😂 😂 😂
u remind me so mutch of my ethiopian coworker. u have east african features
Man Craig was my ex!! Lol 😂
Needed to be said! Thanks for this.
Dating is hard,I dnt like the fact u have 2 put time in to something or somone that u like , hoping he might pick you out of all ,the other girls he's dating That sucks!! I'm lazy when it comes to the dating world.and that's y im here. Lol GREAT advice!!
I used Tinder … i've found a man that really match for me on DM.. we met personally.. casual relationship..but then after the meeting, i guess we both still swipe swipe swipe.. the addiction and easy to reach a new match.. perhaps we never fullfil and said this is the LAST… never…. after find a better one.. we might never stop.. maybe much better to the next one.. i'm afraid of this phenomenom.. cause maybe, just maybe.. the Mr. Right just passed..hope you made video about this…thankss
Online dating is for people who only want to "hook up". I know because I've been on there for 5 years
Ok another story time I recently tried online dating once more to no avail. The 1 guy that I was interested in w exchanged #s but he NEVER planned a date/ outing & he stopped calling me. Ugh I will never do online dating. This guy was probably married, in a relationship or dealing with several different women simultaneously.
alot of scammers online.
I love uour videos
Always excellent and informative advice Mr. Hick
LMAO CRAIG im dead
Online dating …to many dick pictures…online sausage festival…😂
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Wow perfectly put and advised. Thank you! Agreed 100%. Much light love Namaste❤💜💙💚💛❤💜💙💚💛❤💜💙💚💛❤💜💙💚💛👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Dear Kev Hook! You are totally darling! You make me giggle sometimes.
I am 74. Pisces .Married.
And curious! God bless. Xo
MF think he finer than you 😂😂🤣
I've seen people get dissed by the one facts that most girls go through PICTURES they don't always judge their character off their pictures just cause he look fine don't mean he fine for you
Got to hell Craig💩😂💯👍🏼huge fan great information as always thank you 💐
You are the truth and the laughs 😂🤣
Lol you are right
I love your videos!!! I had downloaded Bumble when I moved to a new city but I’ve realized that when God wants me to meet a man I will. No need to shop for one through pics. And since I’m new to the area and don’t know anyone here I’d rather be extremely careful on how I meet people. There’s a lot of crazies out there! Thanks again! Keep up the great work because I know you’re helping a lot of us… you’re wife is a lucky woman! Sending blessings to you and your family!
Hey. What’s your email? I’d like to ask you a personal question
Dear ,dear Mr.H. Thank you 4 your absolute honesty, insightfulness, and sometimes lol opinions about this relationship/dating life. Thank you for being here for us! And your not bad to look at! 😅😘🤗💕💞 Yeah!
😁 😂 @Craig