AUTHENTIC DATING:Narcissist-Proof Your Online Dating Profile Instantly
Ready to write your online dating profile,and worried you could attract another narcissist, drama king, crazy-maker?
Let Beverly Banov Brown,M.S., veteran Intuitive Life and Love Coach, give you an effective action plan to safeguard yourself from predatory personalities.
Discover healthy love devoid of the roller coaster ride you've experienced before.
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Ready to write your online dating profile,and worried you could attract another narcissist, drama king, crazy-maker?
Let Beverly Banov Brown,M.S., veteran Intuitive Life and Love Coach, give you an effective action plan to safeguard yourself from predatory personalities.
Discover healthy love devoid of the roller coaster ride you’ve experienced before.
This work is intended as a blessing to prevent/alleviate unnecessary suffering and abuse. Donations are deeply appreciated to support my mission, via PayPal at:
https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=WMA9VCTNNLTAC
This video is offered educationally,and is not designed to take the place of professional guidance and care.
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Thank you for this,yes I was just told that and I can not believe people are like that and call it love,if you reject them they full on go to destroy I was running loops again.my brain ways been set in certain ways.remember No excuse for abuse somehow they want one to be grateful they appear as “hero’s to the situation”it’s bad
the creeps that I met online are absolutely horrible. Plenty of fish/plenty of fools and ok cupid/ok stupid are two of the very worst. Online is a playground for predators. And bec women are spreading their legs as fast as they can with total strangers, egotistical males literally expect all women to do that. Society in general, is a lot more interested in instant gratification and a lot LESS interested in emotions.
Nope! Nope! Aaaaaand Nope!
OMG this is an awesome video thank you
my father and brother was/are narcissists, and i am only attracted to sick people like my dad and brother, it's so confusing, my life has been one nightmare after another.
wow, you really make sense to me. why can't they love us?
Dear Bev you r so you. I am not really into online machine dating.impossible at moment..These boots r made for walking….non FI…never.problem arises…
You are so correct. My narc manifested a month after I broke up with my ex girlfriend of 8 years. I will admit that I was vulnerable because I was lonely and in much need of affection and love. She honed on these weaknesses like a heat seeking missile.
Right after my narc of 18 years left, I got drunk and made an online dating profile. I had forgot all about it. Yesterday I went through my spam folder and found TONS of responses from guys wanting to date me and they were HYSTERICALLY HORRIBLE. Profile photos of guys sleeping or eating on their couches, standing over dead dear, coyotes, bear, etc, flirts from religious zealots… and though my profile stated that I was a vegan and an atheist, I ALSO (apparently!) wrote that I had "no ambition" and could "play the recorder with my nose" and I wanted absolutely NO commitment. So I pretty much got the responses I should've expected! LOL! I'm still laughing about it. Time to take down the page. I only want to share my life with my friends and family right now anyway. 🙂
beautiful.. truly felt like being in the presence of a master
you are so totally sweet…ty.
Love your videos, i find you a great role model for ladies 🙂
I get what you are saying, that being in touch & expressing what we truly want will attract the right partner but i also think this is what attracts manipulators & abusive types.
So is there a way to actively repel the bad ones in the process ?
For instance, if you express high standards on a dating profile it can cause friction & invite random negativity : 'you need to drop your standards – nobody is that good, who do you think you are, I've had better' some get abusive & disrespectful. And if you radiate an inner confidence & shiny self it attracts the narcs or the big fake ego's.
Being warm/honest attracts exploiters. Being firm attracts abuse. Being authentic attracts inauthenticity. People play every trick in the book other than being them self. And its tiring. I don't think people even know how to be authentic & are terrified of connecting.
No matter who i give a chance to, whether they are confident, shy, nice, 'seemingly' caring, even spiritual -you realise it's always an act by a clueless creature who just wants validation and is almost incapable of empathy, connection & understanding others.
So i just can't see much hope in there being a great person out there, who is even capable of fixing their issues, becoming a divine self & giving true, unconditional love.. That's the last thing on an English guy's mind 🙁 It seems to me that society is a frenzy of children scrabbling over meaningless validation, & the default motive for relationships is mutual manipulation between 2 disconnected individuals. What is the hope for authentic women if males are all attracted to the notion of highly selfish, demanding, superficial, crazy narcissistic ones? I'm beginning to think the only way of coping in society is to join in with dysfunctional behaviour … & that would be disappointing.
Sorry for the essay!
Thank you Beverly!! I just put up a profile and was wondering how to fend them off!
Thank you! The love in your soul comes through to every soul you are touching and healing in your videos! Thank you so very much from my heart!
Thank you for these wonderful videos. You have a calming way about you, and exactly what I need right now 🙂 I"m in the midst of being discarded by a narcissistic man. I love him so much, nd I feel like an empty shell after 4 years. I guess 2 ex wives and 2 children that he never bothered with were the red flags that I chose to push aside.
How in the hell did I automaticly go from a video of looking at a suppossedly 30000000 million year old screw to this? I can answer this question still the same. Narcissit suck. Your problem is that you focus to much on the other person and not enough on yourself. Make yourself right and trust in the Lord. The rest will take care of itself.
Excellent, Excellent Excellent !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
uh oh! the audio isn't matching up to the video! So I am just listening to it instead, although it's a lot better being able to look at your kind eyes!
You're Awesome! I've watched a few of your videos and am so glad I found you! That was a most valuable nugget of wisdom! Thank you so much for sharing so much helpful info!
THANK YOU!!