Cold Approach vs Online Dating!

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Hi Guys it’s Iain Myles here and today I’m gonna be talking to you about why cold approach beats online dating on all counts.

Guys it might be worth me mentioning here that I offer an 8- week confidence course which will help you boost your overall confidence and your self esteem with women. Guys this is an exclusive programme that I can run face to face or even on Skype so even if you’re based in the US or Australia, you can still sign up and benefit from the programme! But anyway let’s watch the infield footage I prepared for you, so stay tuned!

Okay So what exactly can we learn from this interaction? Well, first off, realise that it is okay to approach girls during the day. It’s absolutely fine! , you’re not gonna die or get into any kind of trouble -so let’s ditch that myth. I mean guys I’ve been going out for the past 9 years and I’ve been going at it for consecutive days in a row and I’ve only ever had 1 bad reaction…literally just 1!!! And thats as far as i can remember haha.. And remember that I’m not the type of guy who sits around and waits for things to happen, I’m the type of guy who takes loads of action so you’ve got nothing to be afraid of ! And also cold approach just trumps all types of online dating, that includes all of those dating apps. Guys the girl even said so herself. Why do you think she mentioned it? Because in reality It’s so much more effective as it’s different and you’re differentiating yourself amongst the crowd of guys. She realises the effort it takes to cold approach a girl and so she appreciates the effort.

Guys it was really funny when the girl mentioned men should approach more nowadays. She was basically saying how it’s better than online dating and that more men should do it ! I mean She makes a fair point here, i can only agree with her. When it comes to cold approach in the street or at a night club, you’re basically saving yourself your own time and the girls time by getting to know each other in person from the get go. The reason I say this is that you both see each other straight away so you can see how each of you look like , none of it is photo shopped or edited , so you save yourself a heck of a lot of time before you even start messaging the girl ! Looks aside , I suppose you also get to know each other on a personal level too which just wouldn’t be possible online. You know I always ask myself ; what is the point of messaging someone for days and days on end when you haven’t even seen what they look like in person or felt their personality and vibe !?

Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He specializes in coaching men who have been looking for dating success and chronically unlucky with women. He publishes regular infield dating videos and social experiments in KamaTV. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, coffee shops, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating including confidence, conversational skills, connection and mind sets.

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Clive Harman says:

a lot of women don't like being approached now days,especially if they know where you're employed.also further more a less confidence male is not likely to "cold call" as they are likely be rejected due to looks,lack of money,part time employment, don't drink alcohol.

Quashaun Hunter says:

Heres something that might help I have zero confidence and I cold approach girls all the time

XtraConfidence says:

Cold approach is the best. So fun aswell, if you think of it as a chore then you'll never succeed, you have to have fun and you have to walk away every time with a smile, regardless if it's a number close or a rejection.

Commando Master says:

Good job. Cold approach is harder than Tinder, but gives you a better chance. The blonde girl was really nice to you.

Azzi says:

I try to keep it under 1 minute so not to fuck up

Bigcubefan says:

Impressive, dude.

SevenFoot Pelican says:

I want to… but it's hard… we don't live in the same kind of society we used to… everyone is closed off, jaded and women are more feminist than in the past… they're generally not open to meeting men… they're less patient with men, they're more sensitive to initial awkwardness, they're self-conscious about being approached by men and how they'll look in public, etc…

For men, getting rejected in public is pretty difficult too…

I honestly wonder how people met their girlfriends and wives and boyfriends and husbands in the 70's, 80's, 90's before the internet age, but also after the age of being set up by family/parents…

flo_plstr says:

I think what most guys still don't realize is that in order to get girls on a consistent level and in a healthy way, you mainly have to core change yourself, and not try to change the women's opinion about being with you. And you DO already change yourself by every single cold approach you because you're tackling approach anxiety, which is in my opinion actually the fear of changing yourself! I think the result of longterm pickup is basically transforming you into an alpha male. Just adding some thoughts here, GG!

Steve Church says:

I met a woman online today and found we all ready met where she works ,she works at the casino where my brother goes to play his free play she works as an EMT/security officer talk about strange things happening plan on getting to the casino so I can see her.

Mike programer says:

Shaken not stirred

s lee says:

It's funny to read the comments about getting arrested, tased etc and yet…. None of that happened to you (except for that one bad reaction) 😁

Paul Mcdonough says:

I don't have the confidence to do it if you did that in Liverpool you would get told to piss of or slapped

DarthVader says:

People don't approach anyone these days fearing allegations of sexual harassment from women.
If you're a tall, good looking guy you don't have to fear anything but if you're not, you're going to get a tons of "Fuck offs" and No's Thanks to feminism and Me too movement. I'm all for gender equality but it has gotten out of hands in recent years.

Earl Sanders says:

Yesterday I was at Starbucks right by the mall & I saw 2 beautiful girls but I have a nervous reaction every time I see a beautiful girl in person not on social media I get nervous because I don't know what a female would say to me & I don't know how guys did just talk to girls & getting their number very easy I think the guys have strong confident & the harder I try to talk to these females on social media the rejection that I get it's really really hard for to find a girl on social media cause I get rejected billions of times on social media cause I don't know what do females really like in guy & what type in general

Marcelo Soprano says:

Rich Approach Vs Broke.

AntisepticHandwash says:

I've watched a few KamaTV videos and I've always been impressed with how chill and confident Iain is. Even if he says something awkward or gets a negative reaction from girls, he remains unphased, chill, and happy. It's pretty cool to seen him in actual action picking up a girl!

Toneyy i says:

Guys writing that if you cold approach you’ll get pepper sprayed or arrested. Complete bullshit. It takes a real man to approach with confidence and guts. Ya can bitch and comment while im out here cold approaching and fuckin these hoes. Smh ya pathetic wining mgtow fags

Maimela Kinsley says:

Cold approach

DevilKaz says:

Cold Approach Leads to Pepper Spray in The Eyes Or a Taser to the Balls FACT

Beautiful Boy says:

She’s tight

sutats says:

Offline dating ftw

Amid Amid says:

0:33 Ian chasing the girl like a thief 😂

gwd109 says:

not on all counts. Online we can see basic details about the woman – her height, lifestyle, likes and dislikes, photos in different settings. Also a lot of women there (not all) are actively seeking to date or get married

Andrew Moss says:

People don't approach as much anymore. These days in this internet age — people generally want to know a bit about the person before they meet them. The days of just going up to someone seem to be dying away unfortunately.

HBOX1000 says:

I'm in shock,she sounds English!

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