http://www.BreakupBrad.com/ — 5 Golden Rules To Obey If You Want Your Ex Back
Hi YouTube, youâre watching my latest breakup advice video⊠I am, of course, Brad Browning⊠Iâm the #1 expert on YouTube when it comes to getting back together with your ex.
And, as you can see behind me, Iâm currently in the middle of nowhere⊠the heat out here is sweltering, so I have to keep this video briefâŠ. but I am actually out here in the middle of nowhere for a reason.⊠I want to show you what happens to people who break one of the 5 crucial rules of getting your ex back.
Now, Iâm not sure if Iâm blocking your view hereâŠ. But, somewhere among the desolate dunes behind me, you should be able to spot a poor gentleman who recently broke one of the 5 rules Iâm about to tell you about. Look at him⊠what an awful existence. If he had just followed my advice, heâd probably be happily back together with his ex instead of chasing mirages under the blistering desert sun.
So, folks, please remember: if you want your ex back, then you need to listen carefully and adhere to the 5 golden rules Iâll be explaining momentarily. If you decide not to heed my warning and break any one of them, and you end up alone and lost in the middle of the Sahara, donât say I didnât warn you.
Rule #1 – Donât let your ex see your emotions.
Ok, I get it, youâre heartbroken. Breakups are one of the toughest things in life, and I know exactly how gut-wrenching youâre probably feeling right now. But the last thing you want to do is show that heartache and sadness to your ex⊠those really arenât attractive traits. In fact, if your ex knows your life is in shambles because of the breakup, theyâll subconsciously start to think of you as a âlow valueâ individual, and that will reaffirm their decision to break up. Would you want to date someone who looks and acts like this?? Didnât think so.
Worse yet, if your ex knows you didnât want to end the relationship, theyâll have their guard up any time you try to reach out to them⊠and the last thing you need is for your ex to know youâre trying to win them back. So, letâs recap — rule #1 is that you should never let your ex see how upset you are. Put on your happy face and do the opposite of what your ex will expect you to do — embrace life, be happy, and pretend youâre fully on board with the idea of breaking up.
Rule #2 – Donât be obvious with your attempts to get him or her back.
Look, my Ex Factor program is full of techniques you can use to help get your ex to take you backâŠ. And they work really well, when done properly. But sometimes, Iâll have clients who are way too obvious about things, and their ex can easily tell whatâs going on. So when youâre using tactics like my Covert Jealousy technique, or when youâre putting on your pretend happy face like I mentioned in Golden Rule #1, you have to be subtle. Donât suddenly start doing things you swore to your ex youâd never be caught doingâŠ. Donât post stuff on social media that is obviously specifically written for your ex to seeâŠ. Just be subtle, operate under-the-radar, and generally be cool. Got it?
Rule #3 – Get out, be social, and stay busy.
Nothing can make the pain of a bad breakup suddenly disappear⊠well, nothing legal, anyway. Only time can numb the heartache youâre feeling⊠but there is, thankfully, a band-aid fix that you can use until time has healed your wounds, or until you get back together with your ex. And that temporary solution is basically just to stay busy and keep yourself occupied as much as humanly possible⊠if thereâs a 10 minute block in your day tomorrow where youâve got nothing planned, get your phone out and line up a coffee date with a friend to fill those spare minutes. Make sure you push yourself out of your social comfort zone by meeting new people, going on casual dates, picking up new hobbies, and spending as much time as you can with friends and family.
I know that some of you watching out there are groaning right now and thinking âlaaaame, Brad⊠thatâs just dumb advice that even my mom already knew aboutâ. And thatâs cool, you can call me a brainless dummy all you wantâŠ. Just know what this tactic is one of the single most important things you can do to get through your breakup and get a fresh start with your ex. Staying busy and being social, active, and putting yourself out thereâŠ. It works, ladies and gentlemen. Do it. This is one of my 5 Golden Rules, and letâs not forget what happens when you break any of my golden rulesâŠ.
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